Don't Be Shy, Jump On Your Guy

The modern day woman is in no way ashamed admitting she enjoys sex. I like to think of myself as a forward thinker, and yes, I love having sex. But when it comes to firing up the sex train, things can feel a little intimidating.
 
When I first started having sex with my boyfriend, I felt shy and awkward, especially when it came to asking or initiating sex. As time went on, I learned how to ease myself into being the bold and brazen seductress that I am today.
 

Text It And Sex It

Sometimes it's just easier to express yourself through the written word. I definitely took full advantage of this medium in the beginning of my relationship. During that time, my boyfriend was traveling a lot for work, and the only time I saw him was during our Friday night Skype dates. Thank you Internet!
 
When we were feeling frisky, I would send him sexy texts while we talked over the airwaves. Sexting, or leaving naughty notes throughout the house, became an effective way to let my man know that I was thinking of him in a sexual way, and I definitely wanted to jump his bones the next time we saw each other.
 

Say It In Secret

One of the biggest things I cherish of my relationship is the little inside jokes my partner and I share. Over time, we've both come up with secret names for our favorite parts of each other’s bodies. These names have no sexual connotations at all, so they can be referred to in public or around other people, and no one would ever know what either of us was talking about. Small things like this help to make sex fun, playful, and not so serious.
 

Show Me Don't Tell Me

Sometimes I find it easier to express my need to have sex by taking action without many words. For instance, when I'm in the mood, my signature move is to give my man a back rub. I might switch it up every now and then, but the important thing is that he knows what I want. Having a “signature move” can be a good way to ditch all the awkward sex talk and shoot straight for the good stuff.
 

Being Blunt

Once you've weeded through the rough patches of the first few sexual experiences with your partner, you may just graduate to brazen seductress. These days, when I'm in the mood, I try not to let my insecurities get the better of me. All you have to do is remind yourself that your significant other is with you for a reason.
 
Men don't normally turn down their girlfriends for sex unless they have the flu, and even then you might be able to convince him that a quick roll in the hay is just what he needs to clear up his sinuses.  Asking for sex will get easier as you continually remind yourself that you do peak your partners sexual interests, and it is highly unlikely that he will turn you down.