Sex Is Painful For My Wife

Learn how a man desperately wants nothing more than to have an equally enjoyable sexual experience with his wife.
Case #: 1132
Concern：
My wife loves books—and me, I guess. But my wife’s favorite book: My Checkbook. I’m kidding. She makes me happy. She cooks for me. She cleans for me. And when I’m a good hubby, she makes passionate love to me. And for the past 20-something years, we have maintained a wonderful bond as husband and wife. But for the last 20-something months, sex with my wife has been, well, different.
Discussion：
I don’t mean different as in changed, but different in that sex no longer provides pleasure to my wife. I’ll admit: She does fake the occasional orgasm to keep me content. But come on, for a man with my experience, you can’t fake anything without earning an Oscar. The problem is not her faking the orgasms. The problem is the clitoris pain. See, the reason she fakes her orgasms is to make me orgasm to stop the act. And she stops it because she’s in pain. She’s admitted several times about the pain, and as a good husband, I am determined to find out the problem. Please help me.
To be honest, I'm pretty sure every woman has had some sort of clitoral pain during their lives at one point. It can be an embarrassing subject to brooch, which is why so many cases go unexplained. What we do know, is that before there is pain there is usually a lack of feeling at all.
Extra Insensitivity
Women who experience vaginal insensitivity, who aren't on anti-depressants or any other biologically intrusive medications, generally progress to painful intercourse over time.
Why Does This Happen
When a woman engages in sexual intercourse on a daily basis, or masturbates more than just a 'little frequently,' her clitoral nerve endings become numb and exhausted. Constant birth control use, hormonal imbalances, and over-working the good old vibrator can also contribute to vaginal exhaustion. However, excessive masturbation seems to be the main contributor for many women.
How To Fix It
Firstly, I would definitely recommend abstaining from sex for at least five to seven days. This will help to let your wife's vaginal muscles relax and heal. During this time she should utilize natural herbs such as Maca, Tribulus, and Pyrola. (SEE: Natural Clitoral Revitalization) These herbs will help to repair her damaged nerve endings in her clitoris as well as increase the lost circulation of blood flow.
When you do resume having sex, be sure not to overdo it. Try having intercourse every few days instead of on a daily basis. I would also recommend that your wife switch to wearing only cotton underwear. They may not be the most flattering panty, but they definitely are the healthiest.
Panty Horror Story
When I was just starting out in my sexual exploits, I found myself buying a lot of sexy lingerie. Most of the barely-there fabric was made up of nylon or Lycra. Unfortunately, I wasn't hip to the fact that these fabrics are NOT your clitoris's friend in the least. I made the mistake of wearing some of my fancy panties all day once. At the end of the day, my clitoris was in a great deal of pain. It had somehow inflamed the whole area, and for two weeks I couldn't wear anything but cotton underwear and loose fitting pants. I quickly learned that the company my vagina keeps is very important . . . And lingerie is really just meant to be worn and taken off within the same hour.

What to do

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