She Said Bye-Bye to Orgasms After Baby

Female used to experience regular orgasm before the birth of her child. Now, it is very difficult for her to reach orgasm at all. She and her husband have tried everything, it seems, and she’s tired of all the effort. What can she do?

Case #: 1281

Concern：

I struggle to have an orgasm. It takes so much energy to make me orgasm. And my husband tries valiantly to make me moan for joy. We try missionary. We do doggy. We’ve even tried standing doggy. And all have failed to make me reach bliss. It’s not my husband’s fault, not by a long shot. He’s got the size—and the girth—to please any woman. And before giving birth to my daughter, I had orgasms all the time. Now, I orgasm every now and again. But I want to orgasm every time during sex. What should I do?

Discussion：

Well, the very first thing to do is to stop stressing. Stress is the enemy of orgasm. I’m sure we can solve your problem. Your symptoms are very common for a woman after childbirth, and you are certainly not alone in what you’re feeling. Childbirth changes a lot of things about a woman, her hormones being one of them. A hormone every woman experiences a surge of after childbirth is prolactin. I think this hormone is your problem now.

A Natural Desire Remover

Prolactin only occurs naturally in women after childbirth, and for short periods after orgasm in both men and women. Prolactin promotes milk letdown in women, which is its nominal purpose, but also enacts a host of other effects upon poor, unsuspecting, post-childbirth women. Prolactin also causes the genital area of the female to become very insensitive, and causes the woman herself to be uninterested in sex generally. The presence of prolactin in the body also decreases oxytocin levels, a hormone necessary for orgasm, as it controls vaginal contractions.

Why does prolactin do this to a woman? It’s to prevent her from becoming pregnant again too quickly after giving birth—allowing a woman time to recuperate, and ensure the survival of the young child she just birthed. By preventing her from actively desiring sex, she gives the woman a fighting chance at not becoming pregnant again and again. However, sometimes the effectiveness of prolactin can go too far.

It’s All About Balance

So when a woman is overcome with prolactin, she no longer experiences sex and orgasm the same way. Luckily, this is not a permanent state, and is actually rather easily overcome. The hormones prolactin and estrogen function opposite each other in the body. If excess prolactin has become an issue, increasing the estrogen levels inside her body will allow a woman to return to normal.

What I would suggest for you, having only had this issue post-baby, is to try to rebalance your hormones, rather than supplementing them with additional ones. What I mean is, I think you should consider using phytoestrogens as a way to restore your body’s natural hormone levels, rather than beginning a literal estrogen supplement.

Why Phytoestrogens?

Phytoestrogens have the ability to act with the body, changing and adapting, as the body requires more or less of a specific hormone. Phytoestrogens are able to function as estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone, without overwhelming the body as one specific hormone can. They are found in plants, thus phyto, but it’s generally easier to take them as a supplement, rather than trying to create a phytoestrogen-rich diet.

Holistic Healing

I’m recommending you begin this herbal course. It’s designed to revitalize your clitoris, but the components will benefit your entire reproductive area. It will increase circulation—which increases sensitivity—and will also aid your body in removing the excess prolactin. (SEE: Herbal Formula for Natural Clitoral Regeneration) The compound also contains Mexican Wild Yam, a natural source of phytoestrogens. I think you will notice fast results in the bedroom by beginning this treatment. Like I said, try to keep your stress levels down, and prepare for better times ahead!

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